Behind every successful man there is a woman!!!!!

When he got her a Honda City... she complained that it wasn't a BMW...

When he was working like a donkey... she was complaining that he doesn't give her enough time...

When he was struggling with his limitations... she was busy calling him a useless fellow...

When he comes home... she is just waiting to complain and crib about the whole day...

When he was at the peak of his career... he had to give up his job to stay back in his town and sort out the Mother-in-law Vs Daughter-in-law wars...

When he was going through the toughest phase in his life... she came forward and started teaching to support the house expenses...

When his parents fell sick... she was at the peak of her professional life... she gave it all up and stayed at home to look after them...

When he proposed to her... she said "Right now I'm earning more than you... I think we should wait for some time"... and she waited... till he grew enough...

When he had to go away from his hometown to work and create a future for his family... she stayed back to take care of his parents and kids... for years...

When he had to devote his life for his students... she let him go ahead... knowing very well that each one of his students will get more of his time than she can...

Everytime he failed... she said "Don't worry... we'll make it"

When he could not get her a complete meal... She sat by his side and the two ate rice and pickle in the moonlight...

When he had to study further... she decided to work and support the family...

When he shouted at her... she thought "maybe he had a tough day... thats all"... and she took it all...

When he called up and said that he'll be late for dinner by 20 minutes... she waited... for 3 hours...

The "HE" here could be You or Me or Anybody around us...
The "SHE" could be you or anybody around you...
This "SHE" could be a mother... a sister... a daughter... a friend... a girl friend... a wife... or all these roles in a single body called a Woman who only knows how to love...

Our elders had a very cranky habit of being right...
These elders used to say --- "Behind every Successful Man there is a Woman"
They were so right!!! (either ways)

Behind every successful man... there is ALWAYS a woman...

to encourage... to push forward... to support...  to drag... to pull down... to correct... to kick... to fire...

But above all... "To Love"

This being true... My teacher recently told me -
"Behind every successful man there is a woman, But behind every successful woman... there is a successful man..." because every ordinary man cannot have the maturity to help create a successful woman...

I think it will take me a lot more time and maturity to completely understand the last point I just said... maybe another post could help us seek the that maturity :)