If one of your students does not understand what you are teaching, maybe there’s an issue with the student…
If most of your students do not understand what you are teaching, there must be an issue with your teaching only… right?
If one player in your team fails, maybe there’s an issue with the team member…
If the whole team keeps failing over and over again… must be an issue with you leadership only… right?
If one of your customers is not satisfied, it may be an isolated case…
If none of your customers are satisfied… must be an issue with your business model only… right?
If you fail once in an exam, it could be less preparation, tough luck… anything…
If every exam you are struggling to pass… must be an issue with your methods of study only… right?
If one job didn’t click, it could be a bad choice…
If you are changing jobs every year… must be an issue with your work only… right?
If one person doesn’t understand with you, there may be an issue with that person…
If nobody understands you, there must be an issue with the way you are communicating only… right?
If one of your relationships is not ok, there may be an issue with that person…
But none of your relationships are peaceful… may be there is an issue in the way you relate to others… right?
If once in a while, stomach gets upset, maybe the food was not good…
But if every second day you have a stomach issue, there must be something with your eating habits only… right?
If you didn’t understand one of the above examples, maybe I was not clear in my language…
If you didn’t understand any of the above examples… Read Again…
Quite often we see ourselves uttering these words ---
“The whole batch of students is dumb”
“All my team members are useless”
“Nobody understands me”
“It always happens to me”
“Nobody listens to me”
Next time you find yourself saying this or any such comment where everybody is at fault and everything aroung you is wrong...
Stop…
Step back…
And Look Again…
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